He who does not hold to his own will always has what he will; for externally he does not get his own way but whatever happens, no matter what it is, gives him quiet satisfaction and he discovers for himself that he has what he will. For he does not want things to happen as he wishes; he wants things to have happen-
Dorotheos of Gaza: Discourses and Sayings pg 57
ed as they happen.
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